Number crunching

Now that the honeymoon is over and the thank yous have been mailed, it’s time to calculate how much this bitch cost. Weddings are expensive, duh, and ours wasn’t totally an exception to that rule. According to www.costofwedding.com, a wedding in the Fayetteville area should cost around $28,000. I had all sorts of commentary in my chart, but the HTML got screwed up. Instead, I wrote them as numbered footnotes. If you have any questions, just leave a comment!

From Cost of Wedding

Your Wedding Info
Estimated Wedding Cost:  $28,790
Actual wedding cost: $22,571
Guests: 100
Attire & Accessories
Estimated Cost Actual cost
Dress Accessories $121 $100 1
Wedding Dress/es $857 $600 2
Attire & Accessories Total: $978 $700
1. Only purchased shoes.
2. My parents paid for dress.
Dress cost includes alterations
 

Beauty & Spa
Estimated Cost Actual cost
Hair Service $86 $140 1
Makeup Service $67 $0  
Manicure & Pedicure $105 $40
Beauty & Spa Total: $258 $180
1. Make-up included in hair cost
 
Entertainment
Estimated Cost Actual cost
DJ $1,076 $1,150
Entertainment Total: $1,076 $1,150
Flowers & Decorations
Estimated Cost Actual cost
Bridal Bouquet $108 $41.25
Bridesmaid Bouquets $118 $41.25
Ceremony Decorations $181 $140  
Ceremony Flower Arrangements $203 $0 1  
Reception Decorations $216 $0 2  
Reception Flower Arrangements $228 $330
Reception Table Centerpieces $237 $25  
Flowers & Decorations Total: $1,291 $577.50
1. No flowers at ceremony
2. No other decor for reception
 

Gifts & Favors
Estimated Cost Actual cost
Gift/s for Attendants $80 $120
Gift/s for Parents $83 $0 1
Tips (for all services) $836 $0 2  
Wedding Favors $113 $170 3   
Gifts & Favors Total: $1,112 $290
1. Parental gifts are in progress
2. Tips were in contracts
3. My parents paid for koozies
(we paid for candy & bags)
 
Invitations
Estimated Cost Actual cost
Ceremony Programs $54 $130 1  
Engagement Announcements $53 $0
Guest Book $33 $20
Invitations & Reply Cards $127 $400 2   
Postage $51 $0
Reception Menus $57 $10 3  
Save the Date Cards $58 $60  
Table Name and Escort/place Cards $39 $0 4  
Thank You Cards $46 $40
Invitations Total: $518 $660
1. Includes professional printing
2. Postage is in invite cost
Postage includes response cards
3. Only bought tape for menus
4. Bought nothing for place cards

Wedding Rings
Estimated Cost Actual cost
Engagement Ring $2,592 $1,700 1  
Wedding Bands $946 $120 2  
Wedding Rings Total: $3,538 $1,820
1. Engagement = my rings
2. Wedding = Mac’s ring

Photography & Video
Estimated Cost Actual cost
Digital or Photo cd/dvd $737 $0 1  
Engagement Session $629 $200
Prints and/or Enlargements $507 $0 2  
Wedding Photographer $2,487 $2,200
Photography & Video Total: $4,360 $2,400
1. CDs in our contract
2. Haven’t printed any photos yet
 
Planner/Consultant
Estimated Cost Actual cost
Day of Coordinator $1,045 $750
Planner/Consultant Total: $1,045 $750
Venue, Catering & Rentals
Estimated Cost Actual cost
Ceremony Accessories $145 $150 1  
Ceremony Location $1,064 $400
Ceremony Officiator $442 $0 2
Hotel Room for After Reception $681 $0 3  
Reception Accessories $141 $0
Reception Bar Service $2,223 $0 4  
Reception Food Service $4,307 $6,446  
Reception Location $2,914 $3,000
Reception Rentals $1,542 $600 5  
Rehearsal Dinner $774 $0 6  
Shuttle $685
Wedding Cake/dessert $381 $400   
Venue, Catering & Rentals Total: $14,614 $11,681
1. Accessories = chair rentals
2. Pastor Cook was given gift
3. We stayed at home, suckas
4. Bar service was part of catering
5. Linens, small tables, & security
6. In-laws paid for rehearsal
 
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So we wound up spending under $23,000. I just realized I forgot to add in the lighting costs. Whoops. We’re below the “average” cost but still spent a fair amount of money. We saved large amounts for our rings and because our parents gifted us items along the way. However, we splurged on things like the invitations, programs, and our high-cost venue. And I’m sure I left some other things out.

Who else has crunched the wedding-cost numbers? Were you near your area’s average cost?